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Happy New Year’s Eve, Goodbye 2014!

December 31, 2014

December 31, the last day of 2014.  I’m just going to come right out and say it: I hate change.

I am not one of those people who embrace change with open arms and say, “Oh goody, I was looking for something new and different.”  I am definitely one of those people who agonize over decisions and spend days, weeks even, weighing pros and cons and potential outcomes.  I’m working on it.  But for me that means that big significant dates in the year – namely New Years and my birthday – mark turning points that I’d rather just ignore.

Logically, I know that nothing will actually be different tomorrow except the date; but, internally, I’m trying desperately not to take stock of the past year and wonder if I’ve accomplished enough.  Did I achieve the goals I set for myself at the beginning of the year?  Have I grown enough?  Have I moved forward at all this year?  But there’s the catch.  “Enough.”  Enough for what?  Enough for whom?  Just exactly what impossible standard am I attempting to measure up to, and whose?  Because, you see, at this time of the year, it seems as if everyone starts a massive bragging campaign on social media to share their incredible years.  That’s great, I’m happy for you, and if I look back, I had a great year, too.  But that’s not the point.

Happiness-is

I want to change this mode of thinking, of measuring and comparing and constantly taking stock to try to quantify what really does not need to be totaled or tallied.  That has been one of my biggest goals this past year, and some days it went really well, and on others, I fell off the wagon (or is it back on the wagon?  I never understood that expression).  But what really matters is that I made the effort.  I tried, and often succeeded, in living in the moment.  I may not have photographic evidence, or a chart or graph, but I have so many wonderful memories from the past year of simply living and enjoying my life.  Precious time spent with loved ones, learning, growing, laughing, even crying, but, most importantly, sharing with others.

Bueller?  Bueller?  Anyone?  ;)

Bueller? Bueller? Anyone?  ;)

In the past, I have made resolutions to work on my physical health and lose weight (2012 – I lost 30 pounds, go me!), to work on my mental and emotional health (2013 – I wrote in a journal nearly every day and gained so much invaluable insight and confidence!), and to work on my fiscal health, a.k.a. save money (2014 – I paid off my car AND saved enough money to open a separate money market savings account, hurray for financial responsibility!).

It may not be a huge difference, but it made a BIG difference to me!

It may not be a huge difference, but it made a BIG difference to me!

These past couple months leading up to the new year, I tried to get a head start on my goals for 2015: to be present more, to be less busy and more productive, to get organized, and to work on my professional life and career.  I downloaded a new list management app – Wunderlist – which has totally helped me stay on top of all of my lists!  I completely revamped my blog, including a new name, new website and new design (still rolling out updates slowly, but I’m so pleased with the progress so far)!  And I just signed up for the Make It Happen Challenge with Anneke of This, That and Life!

image source: This, That & Life, copyright This, That & Life, Anneke McConnell

image source: This, That & Life, copyright This, That & Life, Anneke McConnell

I feel as though I have gotten pretty good at setting a goal for myself and working to achieve that goal, but I want to get better.  I want to make 2015 even better than I can imagine because there is so much I want to achieve and I just know that with the right tools, I can accomplish anything I set my mind to!  I’m hoping that by joining the Make It Happen Challenge, I’ll be able to figure out where my strengths and weaknesses lie and I can create a system for myself to not only get done what I want to get done, but create the free time to do even more, and enjoy even more of my life!

Terrifying-and-Amazing

I hope you are ready for a great year, because I sure as heck am ready to rock 2015!

From the bottom of my heart, thanks for reading!

Delightfully, Kristi

 

PS. I plan on sharing more throughout January about my resolutions and how I plan to keep them, so if you want to learn more, stay tuned!  And if you haven’t subscribed already, what are you waiting for??

Also, I am always open to suggestions, so if there’s something you want me to talk about, or any questions you have for me, let me know!

 

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8 Comments

  • Amy Sachs

    I’m so happy to have discovered your blog this year, and I can’t wait to see where you go with it next year :) Good luck with all your resolutions!

    December 31, 2014 at 11:52 am Reply
    • Kristi

      Thank you, Amy, that means SO much to me!! Good luck to you, too, and all the very BEST for 2015! :)

      December 31, 2014 at 12:01 pm Reply
  • buttonsandbirdcages

    I didnt realize you lost that much weight – thats seriously awesome! Can’t wait to read more about your resolutions this month!

    January 1, 2015 at 4:18 pm Reply
    • Kristi

      Thanks, Miche!! I’m really excited to share more about my goals. I’m really hoping to help and inspire others with their resolutions and goals as well! :)

      January 1, 2015 at 4:29 pm Reply
  • spoolish

    Great post! Congratulations on actually achieving your goals! I don’t know if I can say the same for myself. I keep growing and getting better at things but I don’t quite know if I could put a ‘check-mark’ beside any actual resolution. I know what you mean about constantly trying to quantify and keep tabs on successes or failures…It’s hard to be easy and appreciate the good and get over/learn from the bad.

    P.S. Your blog is amazing and you are such an inspiration. Everything looks great!

    January 1, 2015 at 9:22 pm Reply
    • Kristi

      Thank you, Martyna! I used to be really terrible at New Year’s resolutions, until I decided to get healthy and lose weight. For whatever reason, that marked a turning point for me in terms of being motivated and finding something that I really WANTED to stick to… I think the motivation has to come from within and, while it wasn’t easy, it got easier every day. With every small success, I became more and more motivated, and that one success has helped continue to motivate me with each new year and each new goal.
      Every single step in the right direction is a success and a reason to keep going. I know, firsthand, how hard it is not to want instant results or to compare ourselves to others, but by working at it everyday (and I’m still working on it), it is possible to change your mindset. It’s all a matter of perspective, of choosing positivity over negativity.
      Anyway, sorry for the essay, and thank you so much for the compliment!! :)

      January 1, 2015 at 11:05 pm Reply
  • Brittany

    This was delightful to read! I feel inspired to set some goals for myself too! Nick and I are working toward being able to get married, so fiscal responsibility is something we are learning together. I really appreciate hearing other people’s successes in reaching their goals – it’s so motivating.

    Keep blogging wonderful things! I love reading. :)

    January 3, 2015 at 2:32 pm Reply
    • Kristi

      Thank you, Brittany!! You should definitely set some goals for yourself and brainstorm or research ways to add to that goal; a little bit at a time adds up before you know it!

      Thank you, thank you! I definitely plan to continue blogging as long as people keep reading (and probably long after people stop haha)! ;)

      January 3, 2015 at 11:22 pm Reply

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